GingerSnap
09-18-2009, 07:26 PM
I had a "wave" that some might feel that it is improper for our issues to be discussed openly on a forum such as this and that it is "harmful" to our relationship. I feel that when my husband crossed the legal line and assaulted me that he obviously didn't feel protective of the relationship. I also want to mention that through researching sexual issues in relationships that I was horrified at some of the things that go on and even more horrified that the wife had "duties" to serve the husband - that the husband's needs should be met! I saw some really bad things which I don't think would be part of a loving relationship. If your partner makes you feel uncomfortable or is having you do anything you don't want to, forget about "privacy" and find a person to confide in or a forum - do some research to make sure you aren't in any kind of trouble. Love should not hurt, not physically, mentally or emotionally. My best