I`m desperate. What should I do?

[deboramcna]

My boyfriend told me either I lose weight or I lose him and I think he means it. I am 4, 60 ft and 180 lb and I always thought I was cute because I was soft and... But my boyfriend told me that I should do something because I put on weight fast. I never started a diet or a weight loss program. What should I do?

[ASchwartz]

Hi debramcna and darleneh,

I agree with darleneh. What kind of boy friend treats his girlfriend that way? I would even suggest that you need to think about whether you want him or not? Really, he is being abusive. If you want to lose weight because you are worried about it then you can go to your Medical Doctor and to a licensed nutritionist. However, in no way do I think you should do this because he is threatening you.

darleneh, you are right on target. :)

[mscat]

That guy is not being good to you ! No one should treat you like that ! If you want to lost weight, then do it for yourself, nobody else .He is bullying you. That is not fair to you, and do not let him treat you badly.