Lady_Bobo
12-09-2008, 07:06 AM
Hi Everyone...
I am new to your site... I thought I would post a new thread and tell my story...
I have read through post and responded to a few post...
I love this site...
I have been with the same man for 17 Yrs, we have one son who is High functioning Autistic... More along the Aspergers syndrome...
I just started attending a counselor Because I have felt in total despair I am unhappy in my marriage... I am confused in my head...
through our discussion she said she would like to look into Co-Dependency...I got a book "Co-Dependency No-More"
Well.. If that didn't throw a log into the fire...I Must have read Ch 1-3, 4X now... I cant get past it...
Since then I went into a huge vacuum of confusion, Questions and self doubt < Imagine that!>
I found Psychological Self-Tools - Online Self-Help Book in your site.. I understand that is a great step for me...
A bit More about my situation... My husband - I have always emotionally supported him up until lately because I realize I lost me in everything....
We had a Trucking business that has since collapsed and he is filling for bankruptcy... It is undoubtedly created a whole lot of craziness in his life and I knew and voiced that the dynamics of everything is going to change... Boy - did it ever...
I had to get a full time job... I had worked from home with the business for the last 3 years and prior to that I worked part -time... Me - working full time took a lot of TIME from everything and that is when I started to become miserable...Things stopped working.
I would like to add I got the best Job Ever! I am proud of my accomplishments!
My full time job started me Tue @ 1:30 pm I needed my husband to step up to the plate in regards to our son... Because of special needs...
He hasn't an I got a new shift starting @6:00 pm so I can get to school to pick him up and do homework... he had fallen behind so far But we got it caught up !:p
My relationship with my husband has deteriorated to 10 min arguments on Sunday - when I see him and we just don't talk for the remainder of my time at home. I can honestly say... The relationship is not a real priority for me right now...I know I have to come first and I just don't have the energy to deal with him and his issues... This is all so New to me ...
I feel guilty and alone in this... I feel that I am going to make things worse for my son...
Has anyone had to change there way of thinking - dealing with Co-dependency thing? I am trying Really hard to understand it all.
How did your story go?
Any input would be appreciated!
I am new to your site... I thought I would post a new thread and tell my story...
I have read through post and responded to a few post...
I love this site...
I have been with the same man for 17 Yrs, we have one son who is High functioning Autistic... More along the Aspergers syndrome...
I just started attending a counselor Because I have felt in total despair I am unhappy in my marriage... I am confused in my head...
through our discussion she said she would like to look into Co-Dependency...I got a book "Co-Dependency No-More"
Well.. If that didn't throw a log into the fire...I Must have read Ch 1-3, 4X now... I cant get past it...
Since then I went into a huge vacuum of confusion, Questions and self doubt < Imagine that!>
I found Psychological Self-Tools - Online Self-Help Book in your site.. I understand that is a great step for me...
A bit More about my situation... My husband - I have always emotionally supported him up until lately because I realize I lost me in everything....
We had a Trucking business that has since collapsed and he is filling for bankruptcy... It is undoubtedly created a whole lot of craziness in his life and I knew and voiced that the dynamics of everything is going to change... Boy - did it ever...
I had to get a full time job... I had worked from home with the business for the last 3 years and prior to that I worked part -time... Me - working full time took a lot of TIME from everything and that is when I started to become miserable...Things stopped working.
I would like to add I got the best Job Ever! I am proud of my accomplishments!
My full time job started me Tue @ 1:30 pm I needed my husband to step up to the plate in regards to our son... Because of special needs...
He hasn't an I got a new shift starting @6:00 pm so I can get to school to pick him up and do homework... he had fallen behind so far But we got it caught up !:p
My relationship with my husband has deteriorated to 10 min arguments on Sunday - when I see him and we just don't talk for the remainder of my time at home. I can honestly say... The relationship is not a real priority for me right now...I know I have to come first and I just don't have the energy to deal with him and his issues... This is all so New to me ...
I feel guilty and alone in this... I feel that I am going to make things worse for my son...
Has anyone had to change there way of thinking - dealing with Co-dependency thing? I am trying Really hard to understand it all.
How did your story go?
Any input would be appreciated!