Anniversary date of my sister's death.

[WinterSky]

Today is the anniversary of my older sister's death. It was 1970 when she was 12. It changed my life... until I die. :( :mad:

[confused12]

Thinking of you WinterSky,

I hope today hasn't been to hard. It is unbelievable how life events can change your life forever so instantly. Do you ever wonder how different your life would be if your sister didn't die?

Confused12

[WinterSky]

Thinking of you WinterSky,

I hope today hasn't been to hard. It is unbelievable how life events can change your life forever so instantly. Do you ever wonder how different your life would be if your sister didn't die?

Confused12

Oh gosh, it would have made a big difference if it hadn't happened. There was an incredibly ripple effect, of the destruction not only of the family unit, but of individuals themselves. I, myself, was only 10 and feel quite bitter about how my life turned out because of the event. It makes me angry.

Thanks for your response, Confused.

[paula]

Hi Wintersky

My thoughts go out to you on this sad day!

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Others stay for a while, leaving footprints on our hearts
and we are never ever the same...

[WinterSky]

Hi Wintersky

My thoughts go out to you on this sad day!

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Others stay for a while, leaving footprints on our hearts
and we are never ever the same...

Thank you Paula! This is how I would put it, if you don't mind my borrowing what you said above.

"Some people come into our lives and quickly go. They leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same again. Yet others stay for awhile longer and our hearts perish, are destroyed, ... poof! Sick people."

Okay not so poetic as yours but that is how I see it.

[confused12]

Hope you are feeling better at this time, but again I guess it is Christmas and family times are hard. Thinking of you WinterSky :). How I too wish things were different but they are not, cope is what we will do. All the best today Winter.

Take Care

Confused12

[xenophon]

Wintersky --

Have you spoken to a professional about this?

This is making you unwell, I think.